We men are very simple people: if we like what we see, we're coming over there. If we don't want anything from you, we're not coming over there.
... He doesn't care anything about your personality or what you do for a living; your friends mean nothing to him, and whether you know Jesus is irrelevant. He just wants to know if he might be able to sleep with you, and he's talking to you to determine exactly how much he has to invest to get what he wants.